Cords of Attachments
Just as babies are connected to their mothers by an umbilical cord, Energy Cords connect us to everyone we interact with. These cords are often referred to as Cords of Attachment and are especially strong between people who spend a lot of time together such as partners or spouses, family members, friends, and work colleagues.
Put simply, a Cord of Attachment is an invisible energetic connection that allows for the exchange of emotional energy between the astral and etheric bodies of two or more beings, and there are two types of Cords.
The first is a Positive, Spiritual Cord which allows for the flow of unconditional love and/or mutual respect, and growing and maintaining as many of these cords as possible helps us maintain our Positive Energy.
The second is a Toxic Cord in which lingers Negative Energies such as inadequacy, fear, paranoia, rage, insecurity, low self-esteem and manipulation. The list is endless! Toxic Cords should be cut at the earliest opportunity as, if left uncut, they can have a detrimental effect on your life, quickly turning your overall energy field from positive to negative for as long as they remain, in which in most cases, is a life time. This in turn, contaminates your energy field and attracts more of the same energy frequency.
COMMON CAUSES OF TOXIC CORDS
- Ex lovers or spouses
- Parents & Siblings
- Sexual partners
- Difficult employers or co-workers
- Violence, abuse or trauma
- Sexual abuse
RELATIONSHIPS THAT WOULD BENEFIT FROM TOXIC CORD CUTTING
- Having a hard time getting over your Ex, even though you know it was a toxic relationship?
- Do you feel continuously drained in the presence of a friend or family member?
- Do you feel a negative connection with someone you are in regular contact with?
- Do you allow certain people to continuously get to you even when they are out of sight?
As mentioned above, we can form Cords with just about anyone, especially those we interact with frequently. However, as Partners & Ex’s is one my specialized coaching niches, we’re going to use that as our example.
ENERGETIC CORDS BETWEEN PARTNERS
Energy Cords can be very strong between lovers and Ex’s as attraction causes a powerful initial amount of energy to be transferred, which is then, further greatly amplified during sex. These cords connect between areas, such as the hearts, solar plexuses, stomachs or pubic areas, and these energy channels are often referred to as Chakras. Depending on the emotional issues, these cords can become extremely Toxic.
When people say “He/she drains me” it is often because an Energy Cord has become Toxic! For example, if one partner is needy, it is likely that they will drain the other’s Positive Energy, leading this partner to feel resentment without understanding why. This Toxic Cord is often the cause of continual relationship problems and many break-ups. Without going much into this, If you’ve ever heard the expression “Energy Vampire” – it probably now makes sense!
However, cutting a Toxic Cord does not necessarily mean cutting the person out of your life completely, but simply cutting the negative connection you share, alleviating any emotional imbalance and creating stability within the relationship.
CUTTING TOXIC CORDS BETWEEN EX’S
When you split from an Ex, the Toxic Cord that connected you remains for life in the majority of cases. Even though you might think you’ve moved on from that relationship, these energies will continue to circulate between the two of you. This can result in one of two things. Firstly, you may interpret the Toxic connection incorrectly and still believe that you are in love with your Ex, and even though the relationship was abusive or destructive, you interpret this strong flow of energy to mean that he/she is the love of your life. Secondly, you may feel hatred towards him or self-loathing. These negative exchanges that continuously flow in and out of your energy field can greatly affect your ability to move forward in life, meaning you may carry detrimental emotions and behaviours into your next relationship.
YOU’RE NOT THE ONLY ONE
A few years ago, I entered a relationship with a man who didn’t possess any of the characteristics that usually attract me but nonethless, the emotional connection was immediate and extremely intense! Within days I was convinced that I had found the love of my life! My life rotated around this relationship but I was puzzled as I certainly didn’t trust him. I spent all my time analyzing the weird set up and why I felt so strongly. I was in a continuous battle; part of me wanted out, the other part believed that it was the real thing. Within months my life had turned upside down. My self-confidence was shattered, as was my ability to work and concentrate. My business went into debt, weight poured off me with no explanation, and I felt totally drained! He on the other hand, was positively rocketing up in every possible area of his life. Every time I tried to end it, I was convinced I couldn’t live without him. On a few occasions when we split, on certain days I would feel alleviated and later discovered that this would happen when he was out with other women. Surely it should have been the other way around? At other times, I would get unexplainable highs and within a day or so my throat would be sore. Later I became aware that he had taken drugs on those particular nights. Me being me, I started investigating as to what was energetically happening and began to understand this to be a powerful Energy Cord that we shared. Further, I became aware that the intensity of the emotional exchange was due to his occasional drug use. Obviously the Energy exchange was more emotionally charged at these times with his heightened senses. I finally plucked up the courage to remove the cord and within months of doing so, I had my life turned around, and I have never looked back. Had it not been for my awakening, I would never have been able to detach myself from this man, who I believed was my life soul mate!.
TOXIC CORD REMOVAL SERVICE
Unlike other Cord Cutting Services that follow a certain protocol, I can quickly and effectively help you remove Toxic Cords using my ability to see and sense energy fields. In order to enable you to cut Toxic Cords effectively, I will first determine what negative patterns are present in your past or present relationship, and where that cord is attached. Then we will proceed in removing the cord.
TOXIC CORDS FAQ
Q. DOES REMOVING A TOXIC CORD RESULT IN CUTTING THE PERSON OUT OF MY LIFE?
A. On the contrary, it simply means that the connection you share, that is responsible for feeding the negative exchange of energy, will be cut or greatly weakened. For example, if it relates to an EX, you will be able to think clearer, concentrate on what it is you really want, and move forward quickly, gaining back all the positives that you left behind.
Q. DOES REMOVING A TOXIC CORD HURT THE OTHER PERSON?
A. The other person is not affected by the Toxic Cord removal unless they request a session themselves. What we do is simply remove the cord from you.
Q. WILL REMOVING A TOXIC CORD DAMAGE MY RELATIONSHIP WITH THEPERSON I AM SHARING THE CORD WITH?
A. No, we only detect and remove the Toxic Cords and not Spiritual Ties as the latter allow for positive energy exchanges such as unconditional love. In the majority of cases, Toxic Cord removal is facilitated between couples or blood relatives, and removing a Toxic Cord provides an opportunity to create the positive relationship you desire.
Q. ARE THERE SITUATIONS WHERE YOU WILL DEFER FROM CUTTING A TOXIC CORD – AND WHY?
A. Yes, and this is why it’s important to have an assessment at the beginning of the session. There may be other energetic problems present and, in some cases, even the need for an exorcism (which I do not perform).
Q. WILL I BENEFIT FROM REMOVING A TOXIC CORD WITH SOMEONE WHO ABUSED ME?
A. Totally! Being a victim of any kind of trauma or abuse forms a Toxic Cord.
Q. HOW CAN I REMOVE A TOXIC CORD AND CAN IT BE DONE AT A DISTANCE?
A. Energy is interconnected and hence, everything can be done at a distance, and scientific research is starting to back that theory up. For more information, look at long distance healing FAQ (Link) as it works on the same principle. Before removing the cord, you will be required to book an intuitive coaching session to determine for yourself if the Cord you share with someone is indeed Toxic or if the problem stems from somewhere else. You will then decide if you are ready to cut the negativity flowing through the cord.
Q. HOW DO YOU REMOVE TOXIC CORDS AND WHEN WILL I FEEL RESULTS?
A. I will simply ask you a few questions to trigger off the emotions required to detect where the Toxic Cord is attached, and then I do the rest by clearing the energy space and repairing it. Relief and lightness will be felt almost immediately but, just as with Bio-Energy Healing, you may experience ups and downs for a few weeks, whilst your body is shifting and adjusting to obtain balance. Toxic Cord removal, just like Bio-Energy, is completely harmless.
Q. ARE CORDS PERMENANTLY REMOVED?
Q. HOW MANY CORDS CAN BE REMOVED IN ONE SESSION?
A. In order to obtain a correct analysis, and target the correct cord, only one Toxic Cord can be addressed per session.
WHAT DOES THE CORD OF ATTACHMENT REMOVAL SESSION INCLUDE AND WHAT DOES IT COST?
CORD OF ATTATCHMENT CUTTING SESSION
CORD OF ATTATCHMENT CUTTING SESSION
A 3 MONTH WEIGHT LOSS WORKS COACHING PACKAGE WITH ADDED TEXT SUPPORT. SESSIONS ARE BE CARRIED OUT BY PHONE OR SKYPE£115.00
The Session consists of:
- Total time is approximately 45mins
- Intuitive consultation to determine if a negative cord of attachment is present
- Removal of the cord of attachment
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